Here are some ways you can protect your kids and prevent them from purchasing drugs online*:
- Keep the communication lines open. Make sure to always have an open line of communication with your young loved ones. Let them keep you in the know about their friends, what’s happening in their school, their interests, and more. Being close to him or her also helps you to notice changes in behavior that could point to drug use.
- Make sure they know the consequences. Because the drugs can be so readily available online, kids may sometimes believe that they aren’t really that dangerous. But from overdose to death to possible jail time if they are caught, using and buying drugs can lead to serious consequences. There are many cases where someone has been sentenced to prison for giving a pill to someone who later overdosed.
- Check out their “searches” (if you suspect drug use). Look through their browser or Google searches (on their computer or cell phones). Keep an eye out for any “How to buy ____ online” -type searches. Bring up anything that causes strong suspicion. This may be an uncomfortable conversation and you may also be accused of spying (which you are technically doing). But be sure to let him or her know that you are worried and only want to keep them safe. Make sure you point out recent cases in the news about young people overdosing on drugs. You may also want to invest in one of these “Parental-Control and Monitoring Apps.”
- Monitor their delivered packages (if you suspect drug use). For obvious reasons, drugs are often delivered in unmarked and discreet packages. If you find your loved one getting such mail, or packages that you don’t expect, ask them about it. You may want to stick around when they are opening the package.
With drugs being more accessible than ever, the most important things you can do are to educate yourself on the potential danger while maintaining a good relationship with your child.